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After reading these posts, and the above article, I think there are different classes of people. There are those who just are not kid people.
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Think about it this way. My theory is that if your really honest with yourself as to what you as an individual want and need from a relationship, then the family sector will naturally follow suit.
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Take it from someone who has rushed before more than once. And to the kidless person; thank your lucky stars for space, independence, and slowing things down.
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In their unique minds — they dont do anything wrong. Maybe you just need a break from it. If trying to talk to her is like constantly hitting a brick wall — honestly just leave, because shes never going to be on board with you or any man.
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